How Accomplishing a Semester of Grad School Makes for Happy Holidays

This painting was my last assignment for this semester’s still life class.

I chose to honor the fifth night of Hanukkah and used our menorah as the focus. My mother in law brought this menorah back from a trip to Israel and I have always loved its intricate detail.

Tomorrow our home will be filled with my husband’s family to celebrate.

The Fifth Night by Wendy Brayton International artistI am so happy to have completed this semester!

I feel like I was able to overcome so much more then just finishing a semester.

Two years ago I started grad school then hit a marriage crises and left abruptly halfway into the first semester.

The winter of 2007 was a miserable one. In addition to martial strife I developed a new symptom – panic attacks.

My first one bowled me over and I actually called an ambulance.  Then came the slew of medical check ups to rule out any physical causes.

After all physical causes were ruled out, I just had to learn how to breath through them. They were painful and extremely scary.

I am happy to report after six months of marriage therapy, two years of passing time and a semester of grad school, almost all my panic attacks have subsided.

I do still get them in crowded spaces.

So today I celebrate.

I do not have any homework deadlines looming over my head.  I have not had to renew my medication for the attacks in almost a year and I know I am  stronger.

Thank you 8 women dream.

I believe part of this healing process has been being with this supportive group.

I am looking forward to focusing on my 2010 dreams of going to Italy and participating in the Wildflower mini triathlon.

Happy Holidays Everyone!

Wendy

Wendy Brayton painting

(Wendy’s dream is still to become a influential international artist, but she left 8 Women Dream in March of 2010 to complete grad school.  She is still a strong supporter of 8 Women Dream and you will see her in the comments on the blog.)

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8 Responses to “How Accomplishing a Semester of Grad School Makes for Happy Holidays”

  1. veronicajean 20. Dec, 2009 at 7:00 am #

    Beautiful painting. Have a wonderful time with your family this week.

  2. Remy G 20. Dec, 2009 at 8:17 am #

    Congratulations Wendy on finishing your semester! You have earned this well deserved rest and wonderful time with your family. And whatever I can do personally to help you get to Italy, lemme know! What an incredible place to be. Happy New Year. Rem

  3. Catherine 20. Dec, 2009 at 11:22 pm #

    Another amazing painting. Enjoy the holidays Wendy – you deserve it!!

  4. Rachel 21. Dec, 2009 at 5:40 am #

    Ooooh, no looming deadlines IS such a good feeling.

    Love the painting. Is it for sales?

    ” I have not had to renew my medication for the attacks in almost a year and I know I am stronger.”

    Contratulations — that’s wonderful!

  5. Lisa 21. Dec, 2009 at 12:29 pm #

    Wendy, as always, another beautiful painting… I feel lucky to be among the first in the world to see your new works, every time you post them here! :)

    CONGRATS on an awesome accomplishment… Not just finishing a semester of grad school, but persevering through the obstacles along the way to get to this point… Not an easy journey – Am proud of you – and happy to be part of the team now that is cheering you on!

    Here´s to even brighter days to come, that triathlon and of course Italy in 2010…

    Hugs,
    Lisa

  6. Happy 23. Dec, 2009 at 4:03 pm #

    Happy Holidays Everyone! All the best for the New Year.

  7. Warner Graham 26. Dec, 2009 at 7:23 am #

    Grad school is a lot of work. Did you know that PHD really stands for Prozac handouts Desired. Good luck to you. Your paintings have heart.

  8. Addison 14. Jan, 2010 at 8:09 pm #

    Wow grad school. I have been dreaming about going myself and you do it with working, a marriage and a family. Inspirational!!!