How To Get Unstuck and Gain Momentum: Clear Your Dream Environment

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Clear Your Dream Environment of things

Is your big dream stuck and going nowhere?  Have you ever thought that it could be related to your dream environment?

Everything in our environment is a reflection of what’s going on in our inner environment, and a cluttered home is directly correlated with the mental and emotional clutter we hold inside.

You will often hear me say, “clear your clutter, clear your mind.” By sorting out your clutter, you sort out your life, which results in a release and renewal of your own life force.

Why we hold on to clutter

Clutter is woven into our emotional energy and it drains us. It ties us to the past instead of allowing us to live in the present moment, yet we hold on to it for various reasons. How many of these clutter scenarios do you relate to?

Clothes that don’t fit

By keeping clothes that don’t fit, you constantly have a visual reminder that you are not where you once were. If you can accept where you are with your size in the present and let go of the clothes that represent the “old” you, you will have an opportunity to create a “new” you.

Expensive, but unused items

Have you ever purchased something that cost “a lot” of money and later realized it wasn’t a wise purchase? Keeping these items constantly reminds you of your “mistake.” Each time it’s in view, you subconsciously judge yourself, which holds you in the past. Let it go.

Keeping things “just in case”

Do you have five umbrellas, but only two people in your home? Do you have a closetful of shopping bags that you’ve been saving from years ago? Holding onto everything that comes into your possession shows an anxiety about the future and a lack of trust that the universe will provide what you need, when you need it. When you open up space in your home or office, you open up the possibility that something new can arrive.

Items from a past relationship

Getting rid of possessions after a break-up or a death is always difficult because it means you really have to come to terms with your grief and loss. There is no set time when things “should” be cleared out, but the sooner you are able to clear out possessions associated with a past relationship, the sooner you are able to live in the present moment.

It’s fine to keep items to remember the positive aspects of a person’s existence in your life. Clearing out others’ things is for when you need to let go and move on.

Clear Your Clutter

There are many methods to clearing clutter, but the simplest is using the theory of relativity. It states that whatever is closest to you affects you the most, so start clearing from where you spend the most time. Your bedroom? Your office? Your car?

Mark your Calendar

Thinking about clearing your clutter is not effective. Make an appointment with yourself, just like you would with a good friend. It is totally worth it because at the end of the day, you will feel far better than if you spent it at the spa or out on the golf course.

I promise.


alice inspiredAlice writes the Astrology and Feng Shui column for the high-traffic website (by New York Times best-selling author Dannion Brinkley) as well as for the popular Japanese publication Aloha Street. She has produced her own Feng Shui Instructional DVD based on her signature presentation and is a contributing author to the national best seller, Wake Up…Live the Life You Love with Passion, a compilation of self-development philosophies by great thinkers such as Wayne Dyer and Deepak Chopra.

  • My husband wants to get rid of half of what we have… I agree as long as it fits the clutter rules. I love the “expensive but unused”.

    This is a great list and reminder to clear it out! – H

  • Nikki B. Gray

    I love this topic! Please post more like this in the future Alice. :)

  • I’ve been doing this for over a year, drawer by drawer. I still have my kitchen pantry to do, but each time I clear out a space my life seems to get easier.