Year End Results Inspire Dream Connections

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For some people, coming to the end of a year is inspiring – reflecting on what they’ve accomplished, taking pride in the results they’ve achieved.

Before the new year comes, they stand proud in who they were and how they arrived at today.

For others, starting the new year is more inspiring – letting go of the past, putting the year behind them.

Before the new year arrives, they spend time looking ahead at the possibilities and dreaming about who they are going to become.

Wherever your inspiration comes from, get connected to it – cause it’s about that time, people.

Being a part of the 8 Women Dream Team was an amazing gift for me.  I learned a great deal about myself, my dreaming strengths and challenges – and that following your dreams is more than just “doing what you love.”

The real process to dreaming, goal setting and staying inspired throughout the year is . . .

  • It starts with the idea that your dream is possible.  I have wonderful parents who taught me from very early on that I could do anything I set my mind to.  I’ve enhanced that a bit for my son, and say you can do anything you set your heart to.
  • Passion and excitement swoops in. When you daydream about your dreams, it’s hard to think about anything else.  You have a hard time sleeping.  Everything you see reminds you of your dream.  You smile often, realizing that you have something special in the works.  Let yourself feel that passion without limits.
  • You make the commitment. Logic catches up with passion, and your mind starts to map out the actual work it will take to get to where you want to go.  On paper  you determine what will be possible. You may also feel a need to ‘pull back a bit’ in fear of taking on too much.  Stay committed, especially if you are in the unknown.
  • Time is carved out. By design or by default, you create the time to make your dream happen.  In the beginning it can feel like you have to justify or defend spending in this way, but after some practice, you’ll know the right balance and frequency of time to give to your dreams.
  • You remain tenacious. You will inevitably plateau.  You will hit the wall.  In fact, you may hit many walls on your dream journey.  Your tenacity and unwavering focus on what you want will help get you where you want to go.
  • You gain self confidence. Every set goal accomplished is a step closer to your dreams.  At some point, the dreaming process starts to feel effortless, natural and automatic.  You may wonder how you ever lived a life without dreaming?

My dreams at the start of 2010 focused on becoming a top photographer.

My goals were very tactical and self-focused, as they should be when you start dreaming.  With my head down much of the time, I focused on checking items off my to-do list.  I was able to bust through many comfort zone issues I had around my own photography knowledge, being seen by family and friends and feeling judged for the images I’ve created.

But there is one important thing I realized about dreaming:

Dreams change.

About mid year, I read a quote from one of my favorite business gurus, Seth Godin – and a light went on.

If you make a difference, people will gravitate to you. They want to engage, to interact and to get you more involved.  If you make a difference, you also make a connection. You interact with people who want to be interacted with and you make changes that people respect and yearn for.

Art can’t happen without someone who seeks to make a difference. This is your art, it’s what you do. You touch people or projects and change them for the better. This year, you’ll certainly find that the more you give the more you get.

I started to realize that my dream about being a Top Photographer was just the vehicle, the platform, the “whatever” – on the path to what I really want, which is to create a life of making a difference by creating connections.

Setting goals to accomplish my dreams with photography was just the way I had to think about it first, so my conscious mind could provide the structure in moving forward in my unconscious pursuit of creating connections with others (and I thought I’d never use my BA in Psychology!)

In other words…It’s not about what I do, it’s about the essence of who I am.

Finding ways to create connections every day, whether I’m out on a photo shoot, at work or with my family — my dreams aren’t limited to becoming a “Top Photographer”.

And my dreaming mantra that I’ve said repeatedly throughout the year – “Just keep saying yes to the things that feel right and important” – is now more relevant and special than I had originally thought.

In next weeks post, I’ll close out this year by reviewing my dream goal accomplishments, and start next year with a reaffirmation and redefined dream list of goals for the year.

So between now and then, why don’t you start the dreaming process with us?

  1. Sit down for 20 minutes in a quiet space, with a blank piece of paper and a good beverage.
  2. Let your mind wander.
  3. Start to jot down thoughts about your dreams for next year, and what you want the essence of your life to be about.

Don’t worry too much about structure or specific goals yet – just wonder about what’s possible for your life and let your thoughts flow, OK? Maybe even log in and share your ideas with other readers about your dream process.

Until next photo,


Remy’s dream is creating opportunities for photography showings and public displays of her work.

  • Chas

    I’ve been procrastinating about getting a website up, so I can take the next step w/ my photography. I’m now going to get it done. I’ll give myself ’till Feb 15th. There you go!

    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      Fantastic Chas. Knowing how shy and reserved you are, just lemme know if you need any support with that! all kidding aside, I think that goal is great, and when you get it done, show me how :)

      • Chas

        Show you how!?!?!?
        You know how shy I am. Now the pressure’s REALLY on. Now I’m a bundle of nerves!

  • Remy, I love the new big picture dream you have stumbled onto: “which is to create a life of making a difference by creating connections.” And this: “It’s not about what I do, but the essence of who I am…”

    AMEN girlfriend! What an awesome epiphany! I think if we all lived our lives this way – focused on who we ARE in the world and being loving beings who make a difference – no matter what vehicle we choose to do that – what an amazing, loving world it would be.

    here’s to BEING the change and making that happen! Am so excited to see what you continue to create in 2011, and love being inspired by you here… So honored to be a part of this team with you.


    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      Thanks Lis! its been a great year, certainly looking forward to 2011! Travel safely.

  • Veronica

    One of your better posts, and you have many. I need your inspiration to help me propel forward in my dreams. And you inspire me.
    Thank you for sharing my friend.

    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      Veronica – my pleasure! Cant wait to hear about your mistletoe project. xox Rem

    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      i should hire u as my agent.

  • Kalle Koponen

    Remy, my friend, wake up. Stop dreaming immediately! Start executing your plans to become a Photographer!

    Even before this latest post I hae been wondering how long do You think it is appropriate to dream before You need to start realizing the dream in the real world.

    Now You write that You basically dream of dreaming in stead of photography.

    I am worried because I know you would make a great shooter. I want to see you as a nationally recocnized photographer, not a locally recocnized daydreamer.

    Please return to the world of being awake in stead of dreaming. I fear it would be a huge loss to photography to see you slide ever deeper in the opium fumes of neverending daydreams about daydreams about structuring new daydreams.

    this is a friendly kick in the ass from a fellow woekshop mate and shooter, with lots fond thoughts.

    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      Oh, Kalle! Thank you for this incredibly thoughtful and inspiring response. Trust me, behind the scenes of dreaming and inspiring others to dream, I’m all over it. Next year will be the year for me and the posts will highlight that. And if I get stuck, I definitely know who to call. :) xoxo Remy ps I do like “nationally recognized daydreamer.” Wonder what that pays?

  • Bruce

    Great post on how to dream, and go about turning dreams into reality!
    You explain so clearly how it really takes a mix of of energy and work to bring dreams to fruition.


    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      Thank you Bruce. glad you are along for the ride…Remy

  • I think part of it is allowing your dream to take you where it wants to go, rather than fighting it, or pushing it. If you relax into it and let your dream lead you – all kinds of amazing things happen.

    Great post.


    • Remy, Photographer & CEO of Cornerstone Creative

      I try to listen to that internal dreamer voice. For the most part it leads me. Sometimes I have to sneak up on it! Thanks for the note. Rem

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