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Knowing Your Strengths Helps Your Dream

A few summers ago I started watching the Tour de France. Lance Armstrong racing

Back then, I didn’t even realize how much I didn’t know about pro cycling. It looked like a bunch of riders who were out to cross the finish line first. It looked haphazard and unorganized, and quite frankly, I didn’t get it.

After a years of paying attention and listening to the announcers describe cycling strategy, there was much more going on than I ever appreciated. I’m no expert of course, but here are some of the basics.

There are up to 9 individuals on a team – and each rider has a different role:

  • The leader – the guy who has the best overall chance to actually win the race, cause can do a little of everything. He can climb, sprint, and maintain aerobic endurance for the long distance time trials. The team of 9 is built around the overall successes of this one lead rider.
  • The sprinters – they usually score well for themselves in individual time trials, and stretches of the race that are flat. They ride fast and have incredible aerobic endurance, but not a lot of strength to climb mountains.
  • The climbers – They usually score well for themselves in the mountain stages of the tour. They are muscular and can maintain a strong cadence at an incline, but don’t have a lot of agility and finesse to go fast.
  • The “domestiques” – they ride in overall support the team leader; they also set up the climbers for their accents and draft the sprinters towards the finish line. They are the ones that carry water bottles and food for everyone in their uniforms, pass information from the team car, and basically do the ‘hard thankless work’ that the team needs to finish each stage.

Everyone on the team has a role. They join the team to contribute their specialty.

They are hired for their strengths.

But they aren’t penalized, looked down on or asked to fix their weaknesses.

Because their weakness will more than likely be someone elses strength.

Team Radio Shack Rides together Lance Armstrong in Tour de California

I think about how that doesn’t always translate to real life.

In performance reviews at work, we’ve been told to ‘develop our weaknesses’. At home, the habits I had that were frustrating (read: different) than how my ex-husband did things – and that always caused the biggest arguments between us.

I wonder what our relationships would look like if there was a focus on strengths and not on weaknesses. Noticed and appreciated for what we did to strengthen a team – poised to win – rather than trying to close a perceived gap of experience in order not to lose.

When the team depends on an individual’s strength, it makes that person want to try harder. Their confidence builds, and they stay motivated and supportive – knowing that everyone’s contributions are not only important, they are absolutely necessary for winning.

So in your life, what “dream teams” are you on?

In the roles that you play, what strengths do you contribute?

How do you depend on the strengths of others every day to reach your goals?

You are the leader of your own dreams, people.

How are you going to set yourself up to win?

Comment and let me know now!

Until next photo,

Rem

Remy’s dream is creating opportunities for photography showings and public displays of her work and to ultimately be recognized nationally as a photographer … then the world. Remy’s post day is Friday

Remy’s dream is creating opportunities for photography showings and public displays of her work and to ultimately be recognized nationally as a respected photographer . . . then the world. Remy is CEO of Cornerstone Creative, a business consulting practice in Northern California. Remy’s post day is Wednesday. +Remy Gervais

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  • http://www.lisamagiccarpetride.blogspot.com Lisa

    Remy I love this: “I wonder what our relationships would look like if there was a focus on strengths and not on weaknesses.”

    Amen – I’d love to live this way and see everyone else do the same… I have to remind myself in my own life some days to see the “glass half-full” and not focus on what I DON’T have – and I think that relationships are happier when we celebrate and praise what the other person brings to the table, rather than focusing on what they lack.

    Will think about how that applies to my dream teams… And I love and feel so blessed to be a part of THIS amazing dream team BTW!!!

    xoxo
    Lis

    • Remy, the photographer

      You are a key piece to the 8 – keep writing, and living in the gratitude of what you have. We are all so blessed don’t you think? xo Rem

  • I get it

    Great stuff. “Because their weakness will more than likely be someone’s strength.” Very true.

    • Remy, the photographer

      Glad that clicked for you…here’s to your strengths! Rem

  • lahjik

    But just remember, even the lowliest domestique still dreams of putting on the maillot jaune and being the first across the line in Paris.

    • Remy, the photographer

      agreed, Scott. I’m guessing the competitor in all of us wants to win it for ourselves. That is fantastic – but regarding teams, isn’t it important to commit to doing your part on behalf of the whole? Just wondering…

  • Rayne

    I agree wtih Remy. We have a strong and talented team (and don’t forget smart and funny!) What makes us unique is our willingness to share with each other and our readers. AND YES, we couldn’t do anything without Cath burning her eyeballs into raisins for us.

    • Remy, photographer/consultant

      don’t forget thoughtful and supportive…lol so many adjectives!

  • Terry

    So I am curious what you think each member in 8 Women Dream is – the roles they have taken on?

    And do you think it’s a strong team?

    • Remy, the photographer

      Terry – excellent question!

      I think Kath has the most defined role as the leader, but she is also a selfless supporter….gets behind all of us in that very tactical role – and as well all write, grow and stretch, we support each other – either thru feedback, simple notes of encouragement, help with dream progress…..These women are all amazingly strong, stronger than I think we all give ourselves credit for sometimes….

      I think we are an incredibly strong team…

  • Toni Schram

    What’s that old song “Accentuate the positive”?

    Everyone is good at something. Those strengths are
    showcased when you’re on a team while your weaknesses are covered by one of your teammates talents.

    It’s sad to think this will be the last Tour De France for Lance Armstrong and his team. Oh, but what a RIDE!

    Love ya-
    Toni

    • Remy, the photographer

      it is a bit anti climactic – so I’m hoping for some exciting stuff near the end…

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  • Catherine

    The greatest CEO and mentors I had in business always taught me to play to my strengths and outsource my weaknesses.

    It’s just understanding what they are and letting go of them is where people can get stuck.

    My ex husband was great at cleaning bathrooms (which I hate) so I mowed the lawns (which I loved). Odd? Maybe – but it worked.

    Great post – Cath

    • Remy, the photographer

      sounds like an incredible chores match! Can he come over and clean my bathroom? How does he feel about mopping kitchens? -R